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May 20, 20268 min
How to Support a Traumatised Partner: What Helps, What Hurts, and What to Expect
When your partner has trauma, loving them well can feel impossible. You want to help but don't know how, and their responses can leave you feeling confused, rejected, or exhausted. This guide, written from a couples therapist's perspective, explains what trauma responses actually are, why they intensify in intimate relationships, what genuinely helps, what makes it worse, and how to take care of yourself while showing up for the person you love.

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Mar 25, 20268 min
What Does Your Love Triangle Look Like? A Therapist's Guide to Sternberg's Theory
Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love built on intimacy, passion, and commitment is one of the most powerful frameworks in couples therapy. Learn what each component really means, how the triangle shifts over time and why most couples find themselves in an imbalanced triangle without knowing it. Based on Sternberg's original peer-reviewed research.

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Mar 19, 20267 min
Emotional Abuse by a Parent: How it Shapes a Child For Life
Emotional abuse by a parent leaves no visible marks but science shows it may be the most damaging form of childhood maltreatment. Backed by peer-reviewed research, this guide explores how parental emotional abuse affects brain development, mental health, and behaviour from infancy through adulthood and why its effects can last a lifetime. If you or someone you love has experienced this, understanding the evidence is the first step toward healing.

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