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Emotional Abuse by a Parent: How it Shapes a Child For Life
Emotional abuse by a parent leaves no visible marks but science shows it may be the most damaging form of childhood maltreatment. Backed by peer-reviewed research, this guide explores how parental emotional abuse affects brain development, mental health, and behaviour from infancy through adulthood and why its effects can last a lifetime. If you or someone you love has experienced this, understanding the evidence is the first step toward healing.

Deborah Gillard
Mar 19


Why Conflict Isn’t Failure in Relationships (Especially in December)
Conflict often increases during December, but that doesn’t mean your relationship is failing. Written from a trauma-informed couples therapy perspective, this article explores why stress, attachment, and nervous system overwhelm make conflict more likely at this time of year, and how understanding this can support repair, safety, and connection.

Deborah Gillard
Jan 19
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