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Am I in a "Healthy" Relationship?
Wondering if your relationship is truly healthy? Learn the signs of a strong, supportive partnership. From communication and trust to emotional safety and shared goals, this post explores what healthy relationships look like across monogamous and non-monogamous dynamics, with practical reflection questions and tips on how therapy can help.

Deborah Gillard
May 31, 2025


Gottman's Secrets to Arguing Without Destroying Your Relationship
Disagreements are inevitable, but they don’t have to harm your relationship. In this blog post, I share strategies for handling conflict with care. Learn how to use softened startups, avoid the Four Horsemen (criticism, defensiveness, contempt, stonewalling), and focus on emotional connection. With tools for great listening, self-soothing, and managing overwhelm, you’ll learn how to argue without destroying your connection.

Deborah Gillard
Apr 25, 2025


What are Attachment Styles? Understanding the Key to More Secure Relationships
Discover how attachment styles shape your relationships and how therapy can help you build a secure, fulfilling emotional foundation. Learn to spot anxious, avoidant, and secure patterns — and how to build stronger emotional connections. Discover how attachment styles impact your relationships.

Deborah Gillard
Mar 13, 2025


Love Languages: Why They Matter and How to Cultivate Them
Understanding your own love language and that of your loved ones can improve relationships by helping you connect in fulfilling ways.

Deborah Gillard
Feb 12, 2025


Am I in an Abusive Relationship?
If you’re questioning your relationship, this guide can help you learn the signs of emotional, psychological, sexual, financial and physical abuse. If you're questioning your relationship, find expert advice and UK support resources here.

Deborah Gillard
Jan 22, 2025
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