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Understanding Trauma and Memory: Why You May Forget or Remember Too Much
Learn how trauma can profoundly affect memory—whether through flashbacks, memory loss, or emotional imprinting—and why some memories remain vivid while others disappear entirely. This in-depth, easy-to-understand guide explores the neuroscience behind traumatic memory, fragmentation theory, and therapy options including CBT, EMDR, and person-centred therapy. Includes UK-based support resources for trauma and PTSD survivors.

Deborah Gillard
May 10, 2025


21 Common Myths About Therapy (And What Working with a Therapist is Really Like)
Bust the 21 biggest therapy myths and learn what therapy is really like. Discover how working with the right therapist can support your growth, healing, and well-being.

Deborah Gillard
Apr 30, 2025


Gottman's Secrets to Arguing Without Destroying Your Relationship
Disagreements are inevitable, but they don’t have to harm your relationship. In this blog post, I share strategies for handling conflict with care. Learn how to use softened startups, avoid the Four Horsemen (criticism, defensiveness, contempt, stonewalling), and focus on emotional connection. With tools for great listening, self-soothing, and managing overwhelm, you’ll learn how to argue without destroying your connection.

Deborah Gillard
Apr 25, 2025


What are Attachment Styles? Understanding the Key to More Secure Relationships
Discover how attachment styles shape your relationships and how therapy can help you build a secure, fulfilling emotional foundation. Learn to spot anxious, avoidant, and secure patterns — and how to build stronger emotional connections. Discover how attachment styles impact your relationships.

Deborah Gillard
Mar 13, 2025


Which Type of Therapy Is Right for Me?
Discover the different types of therapy and find the right fit for you. Therapy should feel safe and supportive -explore your options today!

Deborah Gillard
Feb 27, 2025


Anorexia Nervosa in Adolescents: FBT, Support and Recovery
Anorexia tests everything—family, identity, hope. Discover how FBT & counselling together can support true recovery for teenagers.

Deborah Gillard
Feb 19, 2025


Love Languages: Why They Matter and How to Cultivate Them
Understanding your own love language and that of your loved ones can improve relationships by helping you connect in fulfilling ways.

Deborah Gillard
Feb 12, 2025


Signs You Should Start Therapy
Wondering if therapy could help?
Deciding to begin therapy can lead to improving your mental health. Discover common signs it’s time to seek support. Your mental health matters.

Deborah Gillard
Jan 29, 2025


Am I in an Abusive Relationship?
If you’re questioning your relationship, this guide can help you learn the signs of emotional, psychological, sexual, financial and physical abuse. If you're questioning your relationship, find expert advice and UK support resources here.

Deborah Gillard
Jan 22, 2025
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